Revelation Tuesday

Have you ever just realized one day that everything you thought you knew, you didn't know at all, or how about, the one thing you've been fighting not to do b/c you didn't want to accept you actually wanted to do it and come to find out when you did it you were so glad you did. Well that is what revelation Tuesday is about, but it is my revelation so enough of that b/c you wouldn't understand except it is a great day!!!!!!!! I got to work at 12:30 (Kaiya's with me) and I only have a few hours to work then I'm off to do absolutely nothing. Sometimes you just have to do that to be revived, besides, in just a little over 30 days school will re-open!

Scripture Today: The Lord says "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you." (Psalm 32:8 NLT).

New Release (www.fandango.com)

The Mummy - Brendan Fraser returns as explorer Rick O’Connell to combat the resurrected Han Emperor (Jet Li) in an epic that races from the catacombs of ancient China high into the frigid Himalayas. Rick is joined in this all-new adventure by son Alex.


Upcoming Event (www.ticketmaster.com)

Playhouse Disney Live! - Celebrate with your Playhouse Disney pals when Playhouse Disney Live! comes to Norfolk! In this brand new live show, you're invited to the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse as Mickey plans a spectacular music party for all his friends. The Little Einsteins set off on a musical mission around the world to find a song for the party - with the help of Rocket, of course! Pooh, Tigger and Darby spring into action to search for music in the Hundred Acre Wood, and Handy Manny and his team of tools find the perfect party beat. Laugh, sing and play along, 'cause your favorite Playhouse Disney pals are live on stage, and you're invited to join the party! Tickets on sale now.

Mary J. Blige - Heart of the City Tour to the Verizon Wireless Virginia Beach Amphitheater on Friday, Sept. 19. The Bronx-born artist who made her first demo at a shopping mall studio karaoke studio. Pop and R&B singer/songwriter Robin Thicke will open for Mary J. Blige. He has written and produced songs for artists like Jordan Knight, Usher And Christina Aguilera.
Tickets will be on sale Friday, Aug. 1 at 10 a.m. For more information, call 757-671-8100 Hampton Roads, 757-872-8100 in Williamsburg and on the Peninsula or visit livenation.com

Summer Cool Down (www.kraftfoods.com)

Rasberry Orange Sangria
8 (1-cup) servings
1 tub CRYSTAL LIGHT Raspberry Ice Flavor Low Calorie Soft Drink Mix
1 qt. (4 cups) cold reduced calorie cranberry juice cocktail
1 cup cold orange juice
1 cup cold white grape juice
2 cups cold club soda
PLACE drink mix in large plastic or glass pitcher. Add juices; stir until drink mix is dissolved. Refrigerate until ready to serve. POUR into punch bowl just before serving. Stir in club soda. Serve over ice cubes.

Happy Friday!!!

Today - I am in one of the best moods. It has been a long time since I have felt this good. So I am going to simply appreciate the day and the fact that I am here. Here's the scripture for today "For whatever things were written before were written for our learning that we through the patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope." (Romans 15:4 NKJV) God's word is your mapquest through life. Some people can't understand how that can be but it is true. Basically, you have to have the right material to study with. A good study bible that gives more than the scripture. One that gives an intro of each book, an account of the time so to speak to help you understand why it was being written. One that gives explanation of the character or author; one that gives an explanation of how you can apply what your reading to present day. You'll also need a commentary to help expand the understanding of each book, also a concordance to help you search for a specific scripture. With the right resources you'll have better understanding of what your reading and the Holy Spirit will do the rest.

New Movies (http://www.fandango.com/)

X-File "I Believe" - Today the X Files are re-opened with Fox Moulder and Dana Scully looking for proof of alien existence, sci-fi for sure.

Space Chimps - Something for the little biddies. Three NASA chimps are sent to a galaxy far, far away. Two chimps have 'The Right Stuff,' and the other, a good natured goofball, has 'The Wrong Stuff.' Together all three find themselves on a strange, uncharted planet (it must be earth).

Wall-E - It's still playing if you haven't checked it out. After hundreds of lonely years of doing what he was built for, WALL-E (short for Waste Allocation Load Lifter Earth-Class) discovers a new purpose in life (besides collecting knick-knacks) when he meets a sleek search robot named EVE. I can only tell you the words of my 6 year old......"mommy Wall -E was really good, I loved it." There! Now go.

A Family That Preys - This is Tyler Perry's upcoming feature. Wow it is going to be good. Check out the trailer http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1810003170/video/8772344

What I Found In The News

Who Will They Serve, an interesting point regarding the church and same sex marriages and how the laws being passed making them legal in certain states will jeopardize the church's position of being exempt if it refuses to marry same sex couples and or deny them membership. Who Will They Serve? Go to http://www.breatheagainmagazine.com/news.htm to read more.

Adultery - The Crack-Cocaine Of Marriage, According to DavidSon, adultery is the crack-cocaine of the spousal relationship. "It is so addictive, deceitful, and devastating to the marriage-union few people can walk-away from these relationship-of-death. Understand, when a person is trapped in sex-sin, it dulls their memory and sensitivity, and particularly their fellowship with God." Is your marriage suffering from this type of addiction, to read more, go to http://www.breatheagainmagazine.com/news.htm

Cheesecake Factory - Every slice $1.50 - On July 31st the Cheesecake Factory celebrates 30 years of successfully making all of us cheesecake lovers a few pounds more lovely :). You must dine in for the discount but it is definitely worth the sit down!

Tip Of The Day

Love your hater today. Canton Jones has a song entitled Hater Day. The beat is so catchy that you just can't help but feel the point he's making. After I heard it, I wanted to love my hater that day!

I don't wanna be fake today ? so all my hater's gonna have to take a hater break today
I'ma bake a hater cake today, buy 'em a shake today get 'em a T-Bone steak today
We gone go and play some ball today and I'ma make sure that I don't ball hog today
Take you to the mall today doin it all today ? We gone ball til we fall today
I'ma share my world today and I'ma introduce you to my wife and baby girl today
And share my God today and how He made a way and how He made my troubles fade away
This is Hater Day and instead of wishing that all my haters were laid away
I'ma be like a teacher I'ma give a A today and take the other failing grade away!

SMOOCHES!!!

It's A Great Day

It is a great day b/c the entire office has gone on a picnic to play golf in 90 degree heat. The few of us left are having a great day w/snacks and all. It is all good.

Scripture Today: Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called the children of God. (1 John 3:1 NKJV). I consider it a privilege and a honor to be a child of God. No one can love me like he does!

News Of The Day: The media buzz is back on the so called (as they call it) "first pregnant man" to deliver a baby. Excuse me, what is on the outside doesn't characterize what is on the inside. It is irresponsible of the media and anyone that entertains it to say this woman is a man and that he had a baby. Please! She wanted to be a man except when it came to having a baby. She wanted the best of both worlds. So in the process of her transgendering - she decided to keep her female organs. Well if it walks like a duck and clucks like a duck, it is a duck. This person is not a man, she is a woman trying to look like a man and that woman had a baby. The devil is a liar!!!!

Tip Of The Day: With all the convenience and advantages online, we are all very supceptible to foul play when it comes to using your credit card online. So, I thought, why not take advantage of the prepaid visa gift cards you can get from your local bank and maintain an Entertainment Only Card. You can have funds deducted from you bank account and credited to a pre-paid visa card. Any amount you like. Now when you shop online, rent movies (especially from Red Box - no live bodies), purchases tickets or whatever your entertainment occassion is, you can swipe with your entertainment only visa card! You are free to shop until you drop b/c if anyone tries to steal your card, your credit /identity is not compromised.

Reminder: Tune into CNN at 9pm tonight to catch Black In America - "The Black Woman and Family". Soledad O'Brien has researched America for 18 months to provide an in depth look into black men, women and children.

Peace! Time to eat some chicken. Have a great day - SMOOCHES!

My Thoughts Today

Happy Tuesday, today is a day of decisions. I don't know about anyone else but it is stressful to be faced with life changing decisions and worse when one choice is not any better than the other. I have choices to make and change is challenging. No one has ever said life is fair. Nonetheless, the scripture for the day is "For the Lord delights in his people; he crowns the humble with victory." (Psalm 149:4). No drama except I think I am going to have to stop talking with "my buddy". I'm not ready. He is more ready than I am and becoming a little too available and then I found out he knows a past friend. What in the world, I guess I lied there is a little drama.

Anyway, I was listening to the Yolanda Adams morning show and comedian Marcus Wiley was talking about a news article he read. "Someone had left his toddler child in the car w/the windows rolled up - nothing to drink or eat - and 94o outside, while he went to go and see the movie The Dark Knight." Well thank God, the child started to cry and someone called 911 and now this person is facing 15 years for child neglect & abuse. It wasn't the issue, that was terrible within itself. Ms Adams proceeded to say, "you know who needs Jesus", I thought she was going to say the child b/c it was the real victim, but she said "the mother - and went further to say "why did she let him take her child to the movies". Her co-host did say "maybe there is no mother" and Marcus did say "we can't blame the mom" and Ms. Adams repeatedly blamed this mom. I was disappointed in her. She was making judgmental comments about a woman she has never met and didn't even know her name and that ain't right. (Yes I said aint). Don't forget to go to the Breathe Again (link below) website and click on "blog" to hear the Nicole & Jerry discuss his infedility and how it has changed their life.

Mark your calendars for July 25-27th (7pm & 3pm) - The TCC Ropers School of Performing Arts will be featuring the stage version of High School Musical, tickets are $12 - $24. Also, October 1st - 4th, Disney on Ice - World Of Fantasy is coming to Hampton Coliseum, tickets go on sale August 1st for $20 - $45.

Happy Friday

It is Friday and "I can never be more happier on Friday than any other day"... what in the world? Why do we feel so much better on Friday than any other day? Most of the time it is because many of us don't work weekends, but nonetheless, everyday is a gift from God. Everyday we are given should be appreciated b/c whether you know it or not, you are only here by his divine will, abundant grace and abundant mercy. If he didn't want you here, YOU WOULDN'T BE HERE! Think about that for a minute. Lets start with these things - if you left this earth today, are you certain where your final resting place will be? Have you done any kingdom work (told someone about Christ, gave witness of his works in your life, forgiven those who hurt your, are you a branch that can be cut off, or a vine that bears fruit etc...); have you lived life or is time passing you by, have you lived out any of your dreams, have your children grown up to be incredible gentlemen and virtuous women yet? Maybe you have elderly parents that depend on you each day to help with their affairs or does someone depend on you financially; or when was the last time you confessed and repented for your sins? Today is a gift from God. There is sooooo much to appreciate when God allows us to be here for another day. Don't take it for granted. You have another day to draw closer to Him, another day to work out your affairs with family, another day to see a sunset, another day to see your child or children smile, another day to encourage someone lost, another day to let your feet get wet on the beach, another day to sing your favorite song, watch your favorite movie, or give someone a reason to smile, another day to simply enjoy all the wonderful things God has blessed you with. I have decided to end each blog with a scripture. Each day I will pull one from my cards, today's - "I am with you and I will protect you wherever you go." (Genesis 28:15)

Smooches!

Summer Is Moving Fast

If you haven't done much then you need to get movin. There are so many things to do. Did you know there is a Black Wax Museum in Maryland. There is also the Baltimore Aquarium and according to my 6 year old. The zoo is cool (aunt Brina took her). She loved it and wants me to take her and Kaleb. Nonetheless, if you are looking for some things to do w/your kids, the City of Norfolk on tomorrow 7/18th will be showing Flushed Away on the soccer field at the Norfolk Fitness and Wellness Center; and on 7/26th is the Annual Play Day w/poney rides, arts and crafts, soccer championship game etcc...... and of course the 2nd Annual African American Family Reunion at the Hampton Roads Convention Center also on 7/26th. Get out there and live. Don't forget to check out my articles on www.breatheagainmagazine.com.

Smooches!

Wow

I'm a little late and I missed a day. I've been busy. Doesn't it seem like sometimes you switch from having nothing to do - to having something to do all the time everyday. Well, after 11 1/2 years of relationship and marriage with the same man and now being single for a year and 4 months....oh my gosh get ready. I went on a date (with a buddy). I call him a buddy. I was all twisted in knots and nervous but I insisted that we just talk and have conversation at first before anything else. I told him he must take the journey walk in getting to know who I am. I have been talking w/him for weeks now and finally agreed to meet up at Ruby Tuesday. I had a wonderful time and walked away realizing that I have been denied a few things. He knows that I am completely off limits w/regard to any intimacy (I told him to step now and don't waste mine or his time) and that getting to know me does not involve that. For the most part, its just adult conversation (b/c I am always w/my 6 yr old). Nothing more. However, I know my place and position in Christ and I will not violate that but I had a nice time.

Smooches!

A Little Drama

Hey, I have something to get off my chest today, people who talk down to you. Don't you find it completely rude and disrespectful for someone to speak to you with no respect of whatsoever? I mean literally insulting you to your face. Well I do have a problem with that. But I also have a problem with addressing the issue. I was addressing someone and apparently I took too long (okay for those of you who know me -- honestly I was only talking for about 2 minutes) to make my point and they clapped their hands at me like I was fido the circus pup and said "bottom line". What in the world! I realize because you don't know the person, you can't really appreciate what I'm getting at, nonetheless, you certainly have experienced the issue. I was pretty ticked off and you know what I did. Nothing! I slightly acknowledged her and kept right on going. My question is why do we allow it? Is it really because we just don't care? Obviously not for me or I wouldn't be writing this in my blog. I chose not to say anything because it was not worth the drama that will come out behind it. I agree you must speak up for yourself or people will walk all over you, but you have to figure out which issue is necessary to battle. The best question to ask is this going to affect/hurt me longterm or is this an isolated issue and no real harm has been done to me? In the end, no real harm was done to me but I let it bother me too much. I don't know, how do you deal with it (hint: please comment on my blog). However, I refuse not to leave each blog without a positive message. I think each of us should live a full day today. You don't have tomorrow because it is not here yet and you don't know what tomorrow holds for you. But you have been given today and really today is all you have. With that being said, acknowledge Jesus, tell your family you love them, do something nice for yourself and something nicer for someone else and don't waste today.

Break Free-Do What You Are Gifted To Do

I don't know about anyone else, but the weekends are getting shorter. It was a fruitful weekend nonetheless. I was challenged to sit on an audition committee for K&K Productions (CEO - Kevin Sessoms Sr). Kevin writes, directs and produces all of his plays. He has been very successful in the Hampton Roads, VA area. He is currently putting together a production for November 2008 and trust, he will be global! You can believe that. I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it. For one, I was blown away by the passion Kevin has for his craft. I also felt really good to be asked to be a part of the interviewing process. So often, in this life we pass the baton to someone else (like in a relay race) and miss the opportunities connected to running the race. Which brings me to my point. When someone sees something special in you or a special characteristic or quality about you, don't talk it down or reject the compliment. Afterall, you have to realize God has allowed this person to see something in you that will enhance their vision. Half the battle of success is getting connected with the right people. If that person believes in you enough to trust you with their vision or business idea, don't miss out on the window of opportunities or the the chance to shine in your craft. We have no idea where it will lead to. But, if you don't accept the challenge you'll never break free and do the things God has gifted you to do.

Happy Monday - Annointed With Issues!

Adam's Rib

Hey, happy Friday! Okay, I was talking with friends. We were talking about the relationship between a husband and wife. One person’s opinion was that when God took Adam’s rib it weakened him, and man lost some of his strength. Her reasoning was because they fail to live up to the standards God set for man in the home as the head of the house. She pointed out that men tend to disregard everything the wife does for the home and freely surrenders the responsibilities to her with very little concern or assistance. I disagreed. I did not disagree that it is very much true in many cases. I disagreed that man became weak when God created woman from Adam’s rib. I did some thinking , firstly, there is nothing new under the sun. Just as sure as He knew me before I was conceived in my mother’s womb, He also knew Adam and Eve. I often say, there is a beginning before Genesis (1st Book in the Bible) and an after, after Revelations (last Book in the Bible). You’ll have to get to heaven to find out if there is. Secondly, the gifts of God are without sorrow. Eve was a gift for Adam and she was created without sin. Sin entered in after she bit the apple. Thirdly, a man cannot rule his home if God is not the head of his life. Our inability to be effective in certain areas in our lives is largely due to the matters of our heart, our social, economical and emotional state of mind (this is not Psychology; it is “Kimchology”). Basically, just as the word says “for as he thinks in his heart, so is he”. Even before we began to travel through our mother’s womb we were already destined to fail in some areas and face adversity due to generational curses and we spend a lifetime trying to overcome them. It is the failures and adversities that make us and break us. I think to imply Adam was weakened during surgery because his rib was removed, leaves a door wide open to somehow suggest God created the problem of mans (some men) failures and I don't believe that. I believe Adam’s rib is symbolic to say, appreciate her, nurture her, consider her and keep her well just as you take care your very own body. Don’t get it twisted, this is spiritual not domestic chores. A man should appreciate a woman who adds to and increases him and keeps his home peaceful and because of that appreciation, he should honor her everyday his eyes are able to look upon her! That is my two cents and it aint that serious, we are very much still good friends. Smooches!

Hello

Okay, this is I think something that I am going to love. I have a lot to say most of the time and what better way to put it use. I have no idea how this is going to go because I am a first time blogger. I have never followed a blog let alone setting up one. It took me 30 minutes just to figure out what to title my URL. What in the world? And I am very computer literate to the extent of my very limited computer expertise. Anyway, welcome! Check my profile regularly because who I am today, may very well be a new me tomorrow.